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re: Average mom works equivalent of two-and-a-half full-time jobs

Posted on 4/17/19 at 10:36 am to
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 10:36 am to
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But most on here don't think they should be paid quadruple what they actually are simply because their job is stressful or unrewarding sometimes.



Well quadruple of $0 is still $0, so there's quite a difference.

The tone of these threads just sounds like resentment to me. And I realize a lot of the mom blogs are annoying as hell, but I'm not really the target audience for them.
Posted by JOJO Hammer
Member since Nov 2010
11941 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 10:37 am to
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A study by Welch's juice company, funded by the mom lobby


I stopped right there.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
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Posted on 4/17/19 at 10:38 am to
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ah yes

the weekly thread where a bunch of dudes bitch about SAHM not doing anything while dicking off on the internet at work
Yeah, this thread took an unfortunate turn. A lot of these guys would sing a different tune if there were a way to quantify their daily efforts - maybe something based on dollars with a time factor or something.
Posted by Pettifogger
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Member since Feb 2012
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Posted on 4/17/19 at 10:39 am to
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The tone of these threads just sounds like resentment to me. And I realize a lot of the mom blogs are annoying as hell, but I'm not really the target audience for them.



It's entertainment, not resentment

I honestly don't want the world to start patting dads/men on the back all the time. I think men would prefer to observe and analyze absurdity than be the recipients of constant, ridiculous praise. We're wired differently.
Posted by Festus
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Member since Nov 2009
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Posted on 4/17/19 at 10:40 am to
I live my daily life in fear of showing up to work and getting fired because some IT geek pulls up my TD history and forwards it to the CEO.
Posted by GeorgePaton
God's Country
Member since May 2017
4495 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 10:49 am to
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So it's time we finally recognized their heroic efforts.


Absolutely. Good mothers are amazing people. I loved my mother. I loved her so much that in most cases just a look of disapproval from her was all it took to silence my rebellious nature. I knew the extent of her sacrifice for us.

She waits in heaven for me.
This post was edited on 4/17/19 at 10:51 am
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 4/17/19 at 10:52 am to
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Yeah, this thread took an unfortunate turn.




Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15417 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 10:53 am to
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In other news, Salary.com determined that, based on their daily tasks, stay-at-home moms should demand a medium annual salary of $162,581.


I pay roughly $7k a year in daycare cost for my son to go there nine hours a day, five days a week. If they watched him seven days a week and 18 hours a day, that cost would be roughly $20k a year. So where the frick are they getting $162k from?
Posted by LSUbase13
Mt. Pleasant, SC
Member since Mar 2008
15060 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 10:54 am to
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Most recently, I took several days off work to be a stay-at-home dad so my wife could go on a girl's trip. I have so much paid leave built up that I was happy to burn some to hang out at the house.

It was exhausting. She has it down to an art.

Our normal routine is she does all the kid stuff, grocery shopping, and cleaning the house, while I cook (just love to cook) and do the outside maintenance. So admittedly I had more on my plate than she normally does, but still, the day-to-day routine she has is really exhausting.

ETA:

Schedule slaves. Feed at this time, nap at this time, grocery shop at a certain time because he's happiest, walk dog at this time with stroller, feed again, nap again, etc.

It is just fricking endless.



Ehh - depends on the kid. Our first was a breeze. Other than a minor period of colic, it was pretty much a breeze. We legitimately got more sleep than when we didn't have him. The second, she was a little more taxing.

That said, at the end of the day, given our current modern amenities and technology, it really isn't that hard.
This post was edited on 4/17/19 at 11:08 am
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
85437 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 11:03 am to
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My wife is a stay-at-home mom. I've done it alone when she's gone out of town and it certainly made me appreciate her.


It's not an easy thing to do for me, but I'm also not a woman. We're clearly wired differently.

The whole "toughest job in the world" myth is where it gets ridiculous.
Posted by iwyLSUiwy
I'm your huckleberry
Member since Apr 2008
34692 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 11:05 am to
my mother in law has a 8 year old and a 13 year old. her husband brings home the money, the 13 year old does most of the chores around the house, the 8 year old is in front of the tablet all day, and they eat out almost every meal.

four out of ten feel its a never ending cycle, well the other six of that ten probably have it like her and its the easiest thing in the world.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
85437 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 11:07 am to
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This might seem terrible, but there have been nights where I didn't have pressing work that required late hours, but I stayed a few hours later to work on it because I wanted the peace and quiet


Terrible? That's just a veteran move.
Posted by LSUbase13
Mt. Pleasant, SC
Member since Mar 2008
15060 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 11:11 am to
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The whole "toughest job in the world" myth is where it gets ridiculous.


It's fricking absurd. As previously mentioned, given our current amenities and technology, it isn't that difficult. I've got two, and I haven't found it to be overly burdensome.

My sister cares for people (kids and adults) with severe special needs. You really think watching over an infant or a little kid is difficult? Got get fricked. Try doing that. There are no nap times, no Ipads, no Peppa the pig, no Dunkaroos or fluff sandwiches. More importantly, no "naptime" for the caregiver.

I truly think that our society, especially the younger adult generation (which I fall under), is generally entitled, impatient, and weak-minded.
This post was edited on 4/17/19 at 11:25 am
Posted by Tigerlaff
FIGHTING out of the Carencro Sonic
Member since Jan 2010
20920 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 11:11 am to
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“The results of the survey highlight just how demanding the role of mom can be and the non-stop barrage of tasks it consists of,” said Casey Lewis, Professional Lady at Welch's.



We truly live in a society.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 11:14 am to
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my mother in law has a 8 year old and a 13 year old. her husband brings home the money, the 13 year old does most of the chores around the house, the 8 year old is in front of the tablet all day, and they eat out almost every meal.

four out of ten feel its a never ending cycle, well the other six of that ten probably have it like her and its the easiest thing in the world.


What does your 15 year old wife think about this arrangement?
This post was edited on 4/17/19 at 11:15 am
Posted by iwyLSUiwy
I'm your huckleberry
Member since Apr 2008
34692 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 11:17 am to
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Casey Lewis, Professional Lady at Welch's.


Her job title is Professional Lady?

Pics and ill be the judge of that.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
37659 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 11:20 am to
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four in 10 feeling their life is a never-ending series of tasks seven days a week


Yeah it’s called being a parent.
Posted by LSUbase13
Mt. Pleasant, SC
Member since Mar 2008
15060 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 11:24 am to
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four in 10 feeling their life is a never-ending series of tasks seven days a week


Yeah it’s called being a parent.



It's called being an adult and a responsible parent.
we have to pay for a sitter so we can go try that new, trendy overpriced American fusion restaurant
we can't go to Thursday happy hour
we can't go to Sunday brunch


I have so many friends that are like this. They are all like broken records. Yeah, you had a kid. What did you honestly expect?

Reiterating my point from my previous post, I truly think that our society, especially the younger adult generation (which I fall under), is generally entitled, impatient, and weak-minded.
This post was edited on 4/17/19 at 11:27 am
Posted by Steadyhands
Slightly above I-10
Member since May 2016
6844 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 11:24 am to
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quote:
two-and-a-half full-time jobs


1- B Job
2- Watch Kids
3- Fix Sammiches Job

IRL 3 jobs.


Yeah, and one of those is getting half assed if at all, which is why it's 2.5 jobs and not 3.
Posted by ithad2bme
Houston transplant from B.R.
Member since Sep 2008
3473 posts
Posted on 4/17/19 at 11:31 am to
True story, we pay someone 5 days a week to cook, clean, and help with daily things while the wife and I work, and there is still a lot of other stuff that needs to get done by us.
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