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re: The Decision To Return For BSME At 30

Posted on 9/29/20 at 2:56 pm to
Posted by Tigercowboy
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2007
4118 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 2:56 pm to
I am in the same boat. Starting next fall in my 30s witha 3 year old... I do have the GI Bill so Student loans will not be an issue. My wife is graduating in May. It was our plan when we separated from the military that I would work while she finished school and then switch as soon as she finds a job. Best of luck to you!
Posted by thadcastle
Member since Dec 2019
2625 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 2:59 pm to
Honestly a lot of the sacrifice and time spent will depend on how book smart you are. Some people really have to work their arse off other people find engineering school pretty easy. If you are really smart 2 hours of extra work a day and you would be fine. If you struggle to grasp some of the concepts and apply them it could be a very hard and difficult road. So this answer truly depends from person to person.
Posted by GeauxDoc
Highland Road
Member since Sep 2010
2545 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 3:00 pm to
I don't think being 30 should be a rate limiter. I went back to med school at 28 married (no pics) with kids. Lots of good advice here about the work load and difficulty for you to consider. One way to think about it is that if it takes you 6 years to finish you'll be 36 years old. The question is...how old will you be in 6 years if you don't go for it? I'm sure you'll make the best choice for you and your family. I wish you luck.
Posted by rotrain
Member since Feb 2013
390 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 3:05 pm to
What is it about ME that you think will help other people? I am trying to understand your motivation and predicted path from 30 > ME > maint supe > helping others. im thinking about the cost benefit for your situation. The cost is very high: time away from family is priceless, monetary cost of school, time spent studying, etc. the benefit $100k salary or close to it can possibly be acheived with much lest cost and much more certainty through other career options.

You are several posts into explaining what you want to do but i still dont see a clear “why”. I would recommende clearly defining your end goal ie why you think you want an ME and then researching all options for how to get there. Then you can weigh the pros and cons of each and come to a decision. My percepttion from across the interweb is that you arent quite sure what your end goal is. Thats ok when you are 18 and going into college on a scholarship with no responsibilities, but you are 30 with a family and you better have a damn clear vision of what and why you want to acheive. There is no room for error in this decision.

Posted by Booskee
Assumption Parish
Member since Aug 2020
71 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 3:12 pm to
Thadcastle I accidentally downvoted while trying to upvote. Tigercowboy, Good luck to you as well!
This post was edited on 9/29/20 at 3:14 pm
Posted by ABucks11
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2012
1152 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 3:19 pm to
Learn to code and make more money. Plant Engineers don’t make that much money unless it’s Exxon, Chevron, or Shell.
Posted by Booskee
Assumption Parish
Member since Aug 2020
71 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 3:19 pm to
Rotrain, thanks for asking the hard questions. They need to be asked: my end goal is to reach my potential in education and skill while providing a prestigious livelihood (not of material things, but of good, studious habits) for my boy. I want to be able to be an influential thinker for the companies I work for so that I can one day become specialized. I want to have the option to work overseas if ever it would be the right choice for my family. I want job security. I want good vacation time so I can spend it in Central America helping my wife’s family overcome big disadvantages. I could possibly even help my brother in law look into a manufacturing opportunity in the future. These are specific goals I have in mind. Of course, money is a huge factor as well.
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
42537 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 3:20 pm to
The real question is, what do you make now and do you enjoy it?
Posted by Gings5
HTX
Member since Jul 2016
8040 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 3:21 pm to
I got my BSME from LSU in 2016. It's a lot of work and time. I wouldn't recommend working at all but if you did, try to find a firm or plant willing to work with your schedule. When you get to the upper level classes and labs, they only offer one class/time throughout the day. Some classes are only offered one semester. You said online so it could be different but something to look into.

Also, judging by my time at LSU, ME is A LOT more time and work than CE... take that in mind when getting opinions from non-ME majors/degrees.

Good luck
Posted by lostinbr
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2017
9523 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 3:35 pm to
A few comments/questions/observations:

1. Are you currently working as a “company guy” or a contractor? Are you in management or do you have management experience?

I ask because I’ve seen a few people quote 75-100k starting salary. This is true for an entry level job, but depending on your situation you may not be limited to an entry level job. The real payoff with an engineering degree isn’t an engineer job title - it’s that the degree proves that you understand engineering concepts, which makes you much more competitive for management positions (especially with your existing experience). If you’re already in some kind of office-based role and you complete the degree, you might be better off staying put and looking for a management opportunity than trying to find an entry level ME job.

2. Engineering programs are hard. Don’t let anyone fool you into thinking otherwise. Have you taken any type of calculus yet? If not, know that this is the area where you will likely be at the biggest disadvantage. Calculus is difficult on its own, but it’s also the basis of most of your higher level engineering classes.

If you intend to work full time, you should expect to miss out on other aspects of your life while you’re in school. You will spend entire weekends studying for tests. Your work performance very well may suffer. I would plan on your total commitment being 2-3x the number of credit hours you are taking. So if you’re taking 9 credit hours (3 classes) you need to have 18-27 hours a week to devote to school, including classroom time.

3. Keep in mind that many full-time students take 5 years or longer to complete engineering degrees. I’m not really familiar with LSU’s online offering, but I can tell you that one of the major issues for part-time students is the fact that many engineering classes are only offered in the fall (or spring). You need to be very diligent planning out your courses to make sure you don’t waste a semester due to lack of prerequisites.

4. Your real-world experience will be a huge asset once you graduate. Unfortunately, though, it probably won’t help you in school as much as you would think.

5. If, after all of this, you are still determined to get a mechanical engineering degree.. go for it! You can always dip your toe in the water with a small course load and increase from there.
Posted by Booskee
Assumption Parish
Member since Aug 2020
71 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 3:44 pm to
Lostinbr, thanks for replying!

1. I’m a contractor with 5 years experience at the moment. No management experience.

2. I haven’t taken calculus yet but I have already started brushing up on my foundations through Khan Academy. I’ll be on to calculus soon. So far, so good but obviously not the same as a college course.
Thanks for the ratio of credit hours/study time. This helps a lot.

3. I would expect my path to a degree to be a seven year undertaking. This is my biggest question mark about ROI.

4 and 5. I truly believe that I’d be happy afterwards. My biggest concern is loss of family time. I have to be positive that the move is right for the family.

More praying and talking is in order, but all of the replies have been truly helpful. I’m glad I took it to the O-T
Posted by BallsEleven
Member since Mar 2019
6163 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 4:03 pm to
I'm in my last semester for my degree. Wife, 2 kids, and 1 on the way. I have regularly taken 4 or 5 classes a semester and 3 in the summer. I don't miss a thing when it comes to family.

You'll be fine. With age comes the added bonus of time management and the ability to actually listen during lectures.
Posted by Booskee
Assumption Parish
Member since Aug 2020
71 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 4:06 pm to
This is really good to hear. If you don’t mind me asking, what is your degree in?
Posted by BallsEleven
Member since Mar 2019
6163 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 4:13 pm to
I was just coming back to add I'm not in engineering

Accounting and starting on CPA after upcoming tax season.

I went to college out of high school and messed around. I got out and did some other things until I got some motivation (family). Since being back I kick myself in the arse because that is how much easier I find school to be. I have flown through the past couple of years.

I will say if at all possible try to take some classes in person, see if your work schedule can work around them. That will save you some time at home.
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
31421 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 4:15 pm to
quote:

A few comments/questions/observations:

1. Are you currently working as a “company guy” or a contractor? Are you in management or do you have management experience?

I ask because I’ve seen a few people quote 75-100k starting salary. This is true for an entry level job, but depending on your situation you may not be limited to an entry level job. The real payoff with an engineering degree isn’t an engineer job title - it’s that the degree proves that you understand engineering concepts, which makes you much more competitive for management positions (especially with your existing experience). If you’re already in some kind of office-based role and you complete the degree, you might be better off staying put and looking for a management opportunity than trying to find an entry level ME job.

2. Engineering programs are hard. Don’t let anyone fool you into thinking otherwise. Have you taken any type of calculus yet? If not, know that this is the area where you will likely be at the biggest disadvantage. Calculus is difficult on its own, but it’s also the basis of most of your higher level engineering classes.

If you intend to work full time, you should expect to miss out on other aspects of your life while you’re in school. You will spend entire weekends studying for tests. Your work performance very well may suffer. I would plan on your total commitment being 2-3x the number of credit hours you are taking. So if you’re taking 9 credit hours (3 classes) you need to have 18-27 hours a week to devote to school, including classroom time.

3. Keep in mind that many full-time students take 5 years or longer to complete engineering degrees. I’m not really familiar with LSU’s online offering, but I can tell you that one of the major issues for part-time students is the fact that many engineering classes are only offered in the fall (or spring). You need to be very diligent planning out your courses to make sure you don’t waste a semester due to lack of prerequisites.

4. Your real-world experience will be a huge asset once you graduate. Unfortunately, though, it probably won’t help you in school as much as you would think.

5. If, after all of this, you are still determined to get a mechanical engineering degree.. go for it! You can always dip your toe in the water with a small course load and increase from there.


all is very true and things you need to consider.

To the comment about ME being much harder than CE....it can be and certainly the ME specific classes are harder than the CE specific imo. But for example at Mcneese, you take the same statics, dynamics, strengths, fluids, circuits(same as electrical), thermo, physics, maths etc.

the smaller schools dont have, for example, circuits for electrical engineers and then a separate class for non electrical engineers that is easier. Same with thermo, fluids etc.

so yea CE is the easiest of the 4 main engineering degrees, but depending on the school not that much easier.

Calc is 100% going to be your issue as I pointed out before. You will have to do atleast 2 semesters of maths that dont even count before even starting calc unless you take a test to go directly to calc.

The point above about plant engineers not making much unless its with exxon, shell, etc....is very very wrong. Also benefits with the plants is much much better than contractors almost 100% of the time.



OP your point about wanting to help your wifes family in South America and the whole I am going to save the world idea is not what you should be looking at IMO. if you were 18 and didnt have a family....sure. But you need to look at this as...is this the proper path for me and enough of a ROI to do and look at it as a way to possibly fulfill potential and be a good role model for your son.

You are way too old and have way too many family obligations to be thinking about saving the world. Nothing you learn in engineering, especially in mechanical, is going to really apply to helping your wifes family.

You keep mentioning that....in what way are you envisioning helping her? Its not like you will be doing civil and go design a water treatment facility or electrical to where you can design a power grid for a small town etc. Im just having a hard time envisioning what it is you think you are going to do to help them.
Posted by Booskee
Assumption Parish
Member since Aug 2020
71 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 4:24 pm to
I’m referring more to the time that I could potentially have to invest in small-time community aid. No saving the world for me. Helping one family, helping a few families in a small community is what I’m talking about there, and it is just one small factor that I am considering as a plus to having the good benefits of an engineering job. I’m not envisioning designing the next best efficient wind turbine for them. I’m talking practical, team up to build a school or put a playground somewhere for the kids. Again, this is one of maaaany factors I’m taking into play, and honestly: this is going to happen regardless of what career I choose, so we can even discard it from the pros/cons in the end. (Which might be what you were getting me to realize — we’ve simplified the equation)
Posted by lostinbr
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2017
9523 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 4:26 pm to
quote:

Learn to code and make more money. Plant Engineers don’t make that much money unless it’s Exxon, Chevron, or Shell.

What?
Posted by Tigeralum2008
Yankees Fan
Member since Apr 2012
17149 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 4:29 pm to
quote:

Working 40 hours a week with 3 classes a semester, will I miss out on six-seven years of my son’s life?


My father did this while I was young

He went part time for 8 years and graduated with an BSME

I was 8-16 years old at the time. I simply knew dad went to night school every Monday/Wed/Friday.

He was also my little league coach and never missed a game. I am personally proud of my father for his lifting our family out of poverty

You can do it but it will be difficult and require you sacrificing some of your favorite pastimes to ensure your family gets their time with you
Posted by Fishwater
Carcosa
Member since Aug 2010
5834 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 4:34 pm to
I went back to graduate school at 30. Worked full time and went to school at night. Be decision I ever made. Huge increase in quality of life and pay when I get out and started working in my new career.
Posted by Booskee
Assumption Parish
Member since Aug 2020
71 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 4:37 pm to
Tigeralum: Now this is the most important perspective I could have gotten from here. Thank you for sharing!
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