re: Wife’s uncle is disrupting care plan for her father who has dementia

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So what steps can she or my MIL take? I told my wife she needs to get a conservatorship of him to add protection, but she doesn’t want that responsibility. I think her uncle is going to show up tomorrow, put him in a car, and go to a lawyer himself.

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The solution is simple: tell the moron uncle it is fine if he takes over the father's care, but he needs to sign a contract stating he will personally take care of the father once he completely loses his mind or if his care plan goes south because he's listening to his brother instead of doctors.

If he can not agree to this, the alternative is to allow your wife and the mother to take care of him. He can shut up and move on.

Tell him to take it or leave it. Y'all have POA. He can't do squat.