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re: Complicated marriage/legal question involving finances
Posted on 5/20/24 at 1:51 pm to Evil Little Thing
Posted on 5/20/24 at 1:51 pm to Evil Little Thing
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She’s doing shite like this on top of BITING YOU and some are suggesting you need a date night? Yikes.
yeah I dont think dinner and a movie is going to do much good here
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Posted on 5/20/24 at 1:52 pm to supatigah
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yeah I dont think dinner and a movie is going to do much good here
What movie? Ravenous? Delicatessen? Texas Chainsaw Massacre? The Cook The Thief His Wife And Her Lover?
Posted on 5/20/24 at 1:56 pm to 850SaintsGator
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know tons of ppl on here are saying “get a lawyer” etc but i swore to love her in sickness and health. - I’m not going to caste her aside during this time- especially because of our children (we have 4, three boys and one girl) need to see a loving father.
You can still protect their future without putting her in the gutter by herself
Having a professional help you - even if not in divorce- could be very beneficial in understanding options and contingencies,
You don’t want to tell the kids mommy lost the house or we have lost custody. Or worse yet- have one of them actually hurt. Knowing when and how to build in the safeguards is vital here.
Posted on 5/20/24 at 1:58 pm to NoSaint
why are you letting her have your youngest ? God man go get your son
Posted on 5/20/24 at 2:25 pm to 850SaintsGator
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And a point of clarity - when i say hotel living …she isn’t holed up in a hotel - she is just traveling to different cities but the past week as been w/ our youngest
Wait, so how do you know she's moving city to city? Is she confiding this to you? Do you know what hotel and city she is in at any given time? How is she paying for the hotels? And food? And gas for the car? Are you sure she's providing food, clothing and necessary care for the four year old? Have you physically seen or talked to the child, or just taking her word that the child is fine?
I know you've said she has withdrawn money from your joint accounts, but come on, hotels and eating out are expensive and will burn through money quick. Does she have any other LEGITIMATE source of income?
Posted on 5/20/24 at 2:27 pm to 850SaintsGator
Are you in Escambia County?
Posted on 5/20/24 at 2:29 pm to Evil Little Thing
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She’s doing shite like this on top of BITING YOU and some are suggesting you need a date night? Yikes.
this has to be a troll. If not, CPS needs to step in and take all the kids, not just the one along with mom on her drug/frick fest.
Posted on 5/20/24 at 2:33 pm to 850SaintsGator
You got more red flags than a Chinese Military parade. Time to lawyer up I’m afraid.
Posted on 5/20/24 at 2:47 pm to 850SaintsGator
Sounds like textbook manic episode. She needs a doctor and preferably a psychiatrist. Without any kind of medical intervention just waiting out a manic episode can be rough and a lengthy period of time. There is no reasoning with a manic person. I’ve been through that with my wife.
Posted on 5/20/24 at 2:51 pm to pharmer
Is this a creative writing exercise? By someone who has no knowledge of the price of things nowadays?
The bottom line on what she may be spending and what she's taken don't add up at all.
The bottom line on what she may be spending and what she's taken don't add up at all.
Posted on 5/20/24 at 3:17 pm to 850SaintsGator
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she had access to a shite ton more than $200 here or $300 there…why not just pull it all at once
Because the ATMs she's using have a limit on what you can take out. I dealt with something similar, but not as severe. She's probably stashing the money for if/when you kick her out. That's what mine did, and she was right.
Posted on 5/20/24 at 3:20 pm to Bert Macklin FBI
I think she is having a manic episode. My MIL is manic/depressive and when she goes manic she does and says all kinds of crazy things that make no logical sense. Just to name a few:
1) Spends money like crazy.
2) "cuts off" anyone in her life that tries to call her out on her BS.
3) Tries to contact old HS and College BFs (That are usually married) to try to "catch up".
4) Explodes on anyone and everyone that doesn't just go along with her.
5) Acts like everyone else is the problem.
6) does what she wants, when she wants to and to hell with whoever it screws over.
Also the manic episode will eventually turn into a deep depressive state where she won't get out of bed and may contemplate suicide. Just a heads up on the whats to come.[/quote]
My family is currently dealing with this shite.
To OP - check her prescription med's. All sorts of doctors will push meds on patients just to appease them, from anti-depressants/pain killers/muscle relaxers/anti-anxiety drugs, etc. Mix all that shite together and watch out because the crazy is coming.
1) Spends money like crazy.
2) "cuts off" anyone in her life that tries to call her out on her BS.
3) Tries to contact old HS and College BFs (That are usually married) to try to "catch up".
4) Explodes on anyone and everyone that doesn't just go along with her.
5) Acts like everyone else is the problem.
6) does what she wants, when she wants to and to hell with whoever it screws over.
Also the manic episode will eventually turn into a deep depressive state where she won't get out of bed and may contemplate suicide. Just a heads up on the whats to come.[/quote]
My family is currently dealing with this shite.
To OP - check her prescription med's. All sorts of doctors will push meds on patients just to appease them, from anti-depressants/pain killers/muscle relaxers/anti-anxiety drugs, etc. Mix all that shite together and watch out because the crazy is coming.
This post was edited on 5/20/24 at 3:21 pm
Posted on 5/20/24 at 3:21 pm to GrizzlyAlloy
OP isn't dabbling in reality if he doesn't take the advice given. One plus, the crazier she gets the better the secks. It's all just a balancing act at this point.
Posted on 5/20/24 at 3:22 pm to redneck
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this has to be a troll.
Yup he is trolling the frick out of us.
Talks about how crazy his wife is acting….but yet is just fine with his 4 year old tagging along with her. No way he is being for real
Posted on 5/20/24 at 3:23 pm to 850SaintsGator
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I don’t think she is doing drugs
What else would it be?
Posted on 5/20/24 at 3:34 pm to deltaland
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The amounts you posted are conveniently what a 8ball of coke costs (200 dollars).
Posted on 5/20/24 at 3:45 pm to SquatchDawg
quote:This whole saga is very indicative of drug use, and I mean prescription drugs. Paranoia, manic episodes, confusion, illogical thought processes, highly agitated to the point of lashing and biting her husband?
Unless she had some injury and was prescribed pain killers…or was otherwise trashy…how would a normal housewife become an addict?
If she has any close friends, were they slipping her Xanax? It’s not like she’s just going to swing by the dealer after dropping the kids at school. There had to have been a source.
The wife's on some prescription drug cocktail, it's not safe for the 4 yr old toddler in her care.
Posted on 5/20/24 at 3:58 pm to RT1941
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To OP - check her prescription med's. All sorts of doctors will push meds on patients just to appease them, from anti-depressants/pain killers/muscle relaxers/anti-anxiety drugs, etc. Mix all that shite together and watch out because the crazy is coming.
There’s also a lot of “weight loss/hormone balancing” shite that housewives sling on Facebook that can make people act crazy.
Posted on 5/20/24 at 4:57 pm to 850SaintsGator
She is squirreling money away for a divorce. Maybe already seeing someone at the hotel who makes her feel safe.
Posted on 5/20/24 at 6:54 pm to 850SaintsGator
has your wife had regular female annual physicals since she had your last child? she could have some mental issues that are coupled with hormonal imbalances that are causing a slide into manic depressive behavior
having a baby relatively late can cause a progesterone vs estrogen imbalance that the body struggles to recover from. after childbirth sometimes their progesterone plummets and their estrogen levels are basically unopposed. if her thyroid is not functioning properly creating progesterone she may be overloaded with estrogen which can cause mood swings and irritability. Pair that with stress and her brain could easily develop paranoia tendencies that causes her to slowly slide into the depression/mania cycle. Vitamin D deficiency can be an indicator of estrogen and seratonin elevation. Simply taking a Vitamin D supplement could slow down some of her depression and paranoia symptoms
Try to convince her to visit a homeopathic doctor that has a focus on thyroid health and pre-menopausal women hormonal care
having a baby relatively late can cause a progesterone vs estrogen imbalance that the body struggles to recover from. after childbirth sometimes their progesterone plummets and their estrogen levels are basically unopposed. if her thyroid is not functioning properly creating progesterone she may be overloaded with estrogen which can cause mood swings and irritability. Pair that with stress and her brain could easily develop paranoia tendencies that causes her to slowly slide into the depression/mania cycle. Vitamin D deficiency can be an indicator of estrogen and seratonin elevation. Simply taking a Vitamin D supplement could slow down some of her depression and paranoia symptoms
Try to convince her to visit a homeopathic doctor that has a focus on thyroid health and pre-menopausal women hormonal care
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