re: Complicated marriage/legal question involving finances

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know tons of ppl on here are saying “get a lawyer” etc but i swore to love her in sickness and health. - I’m not going to caste her aside during this time- especially because of our children (we have 4, three boys and one girl) need to see a loving father.

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You can still protect their future without putting her in the gutter by herself

Having a professional help you - even if not in divorce- could be very beneficial in understanding options and contingencies,

You don’t want to tell the kids mommy lost the house or we have lost custody. Or worse yet- have one of them actually hurt. Knowing when and how to build in the safeguards is vital here.