re: Complicated marriage/legal question involving finances

Your wife has a drug problem. I’m sorry to tell you but I’m sure I’m right. Money being withdrawn, unexplained changed in behavior. Confront her and ask her to take a drug test. She’ll lie of course because that’s what addicts do. But you’ll have your answer based on how she reacts. I would follow her also. She’s probably my engaging in some risky behavior too.