re: Is it me or is the swinger movement growing like crazy?

So I’ve skimmed this thread, and I’m confused as to what Swinging entails. Are there organized groups with members? Robert’s Rules of Order? Is it required that spouses watch their spouses frick other people? How is it determined who in the club fricks whom? I just don’t get it. If you want to cheat on your spouse, just go frick a random. Why all drama??