re: Anyone else not on speaking terms with a parent?

My Mom passed three years ago but I barely speak with my Dad. Functional alcoholic and highly abusive (physically and emotionally). He also has not let me have any of my Mom’s things since she died.

At his best he’s the guy that will decide not to tip the waitress at dinner if they didn’t put enough salt on his margarita glass. So absolutely miserable to be around.