With uptick in gun violence, do you avoid large gatherings?

I have definitely altered what I attend now, simply because I don't feel safe in a large group of strangers. In my area, several of the shootings have also occurred with police only a few feet away. I'm in my mid 50s and I've found most adults in my age group have also altered their outings to varying degrees.

I have two kids who are both married - one in mid 20s and the other in the mid 30s - and I was shocked to hear them and most of their friends state that they don't really think about it because it can happen anywhere. It must be a generational thing!

Just interested to see how everyone else is handling the situation.