re: The goal of many Gen Z and millennial women is now to be a DINK—dual income and no kids

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i would bet nobody on here would be willing to give their day care worker the keys to their car to borrow for the day,

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I would.

Our nursery is great, I have no doubt over how he is being treated. We get a couple of updates a day inclusive of pictures of what he's eaten, if he's slept and if so how long for, of their activities etc. and you can pick them up whenever you like or pop in to see how things are. It's very open book and the bond he has with his key worker(s) is clear to see everytimr we drop him off.
The workers are all trained and people i trust to help raise him.


The downside is that admin wise they have been taken over by a large firm and prices have rise. 50% in 12 months. The cost is now 50% higher than my mortgage and we will have to move him following the latest price rise. We are genuinely devastated but not every childcare provider is plonking your kids infront of a tv 8 hours a day and feeding them Cheetos for lunch.