re: Would you alter your will if one child became wealthier?

Absolutely.

Money is means, not love.

If one offspring were wealthy, why even bother them with the trouble with the paper work? Unless the other kids are total losers, it's not a big deal.

But it would depend on the family and what that meant. If the wealthy kid were kind and the others were terrible, then leave them the money.

I am hoping for a Succession style death where the kids put stickers on the things they want because I'm so emotionally damaged.