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re: Follow up re: my imminent divorce UPDATE PG 20
Posted on 8/4/23 at 6:01 pm to Northshore Aggie
Posted on 8/4/23 at 6:01 pm to Northshore Aggie
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frick THAT gaslighting bullshite.
Yup
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Posted on 8/4/23 at 6:45 pm to TexasTiger08
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She admitted to holding back because of the stress I dealt with on a daily basis and tried to shoulder the burden herself.
What a bunch of bull.
“Sorry babe I had no choice but to slob an older man’s knob; many such cases amirite?”
What a whore
This post was edited on 8/4/23 at 6:46 pm
Posted on 8/4/23 at 6:52 pm to TexasTiger08
Posted on 8/4/23 at 7:21 pm to TexasTiger08
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People don’t leave what they have unless what they believe they are going to is better.
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TexasTiger08
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She’s leaving me for someone who is ten years older than me (15 older than her). He is bailing on a family that includes two kids, oldest entering middle school.
Most likely, in her mind, she thinks he either communicates better than you, listens better than you do, and has more going for himself than you do, etc. Her opinion is just that. Her opinion. Don't ever let someone else devalue or disrespect you. And if they do, remember this is a reflection upon them, and not you.
In the early stages of a relationship, it's new, fun, exciting, and most of all ... easy. Emotions play a large part over logic and many can't wait to share their new found love with one another and everyone else. Eventually, selfish behaviors will come out, with one or the other usually unaware, and this is where the relationship gets tougher. Could it last? Maybe. Will it last? Don't know. That's for the two of them to figure out.
You're sole job right now is to become the best person you can be. Your focus should be on you. Plain and simple. If she wants to be on her back 10 toes high or on all fours, there is nothing you can do about it. In time, you may not want her. Or you might. But that time is not now.
Focus on you.
This post was edited on 8/4/23 at 7:23 pm
Posted on 8/4/23 at 7:44 pm to TexasTiger08
Set your alarm for 4:20am and get up and work out for 1+ hr at least 4 days a week….set your standards high. Have fun with the wrong ones and be perfectly honest and up front. Stay on diet.
Things will get better increasingly with time. Speaking from experience
Things will get better increasingly with time. Speaking from experience
Posted on 8/4/23 at 9:37 pm to Will Cover
I appreciate the advice. I believe you all to be spot on. It doesn’t make it any easier to move on. I took my vows seriously and thought I found my life partner. I look forward to getting out tomorrow morning and exercising.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 9:45 pm to Will Cover
Will cover is right.
You will sit in the silence with your dog and blame yourself. shite you will find new ways to blame yourself. You will tear yourself to pieces for no reason other than you are trying to make sense of it.
You can't make sense of it no matter what you try and trying to is only detrimental to yourself. The decisions she has made and the logic behind them don't line up because logic is non-existent, that's not how women operate.
The first time you interact with a woman that's more than a booty call you will be shocked. You will think wow this is how it's supposed to be, I don't feel like I did everything wrong, etc. That first one is your wake up call, she ain't the one or anything, she's the one that shows up and clears your head.
You will sit in the silence with your dog and blame yourself. shite you will find new ways to blame yourself. You will tear yourself to pieces for no reason other than you are trying to make sense of it.
You can't make sense of it no matter what you try and trying to is only detrimental to yourself. The decisions she has made and the logic behind them don't line up because logic is non-existent, that's not how women operate.
The first time you interact with a woman that's more than a booty call you will be shocked. You will think wow this is how it's supposed to be, I don't feel like I did everything wrong, etc. That first one is your wake up call, she ain't the one or anything, she's the one that shows up and clears your head.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 9:46 pm to TexasTiger08
You married a whore. Get over it and treat her as such.
Tell her whole family she’s a dirty whore and frick the attractive ones.
Tell her whole family she’s a dirty whore and frick the attractive ones.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 10:08 pm to TexasTiger08
I sure hope you let us know the first time you get some strange.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 10:15 pm to TexasTiger08
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TexasTiger08
In case others have been sugar coating it... frick. THAT. BITCH.
You'll look back down the road and realize you're better off without her. She'll either be cheating on this new guy or he'll be cheating on her.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 10:17 pm to terd ferguson
Like I said, she’s a whore.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 10:17 pm to TexasTiger08
appreciate the advice. I believe you all to be spot on. It doesn’t make it any easier to move on. I took my vows seriously and thought I found my life partner. I look forward to getting out tomorrow morning and exercising.
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It happens all the time. A year from now , maybe even two, you won’t even feel the pain. Divorce is like death , you go thru all the stages until you hit that breaking point. And it takes time
Hopefully you can pick a better spouse then the last time and be better in your own ways.
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It happens all the time. A year from now , maybe even two, you won’t even feel the pain. Divorce is like death , you go thru all the stages until you hit that breaking point. And it takes time
Hopefully you can pick a better spouse then the last time and be better in your own ways.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 10:21 pm to Bushmaster
Well yeah... when you're contemplating whether or not her baby is yours she's a WHORE.
I'd bet $1000 that within a year one or both of them (whore and new guy) are fricking someone else. They both left marriages with kids involved for strange which means they don't give a frick about anyone but themselves.
I'd bet $1000 that within a year one or both of them (whore and new guy) are fricking someone else. They both left marriages with kids involved for strange which means they don't give a frick about anyone but themselves.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 10:30 pm to terd ferguson
I totally agree and he should tell everybody in her family she is a whore and frick all of the cousins and sisters and aunts
Posted on 8/4/23 at 10:38 pm to Bushmaster
And brothers and uncles
Posted on 8/5/23 at 8:21 am to lsufan112001
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Divorce is like death , you go thru all the stages until you hit that breaking point. And it takes time
In many ways, divorce can be worse than death. Because the other person still exists physically and can communicate if they choose to do so, it can be harder to find closure.
This post was edited on 8/5/23 at 10:19 am
Posted on 8/5/23 at 8:31 am to TexasTiger08
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I mean, I’m lonely because she left me
How many people on this planet CAN you* completely control?
(Hint: it’s an integer between zero and two)
So far you have not controlled yourself yet.
Get mastery of yourself and you’ll attract quality women.
Choose one of them to not be lonely with.
Good luck.
*universally applies, not just you specifically
Posted on 8/5/23 at 8:35 am to soccerfüt
This guy says his wife’s a teacher so we might get an arrest thread once school starts
Posted on 8/5/23 at 8:52 am to soccerfüt
I’ve been following your story and I’m really sorry you’re having to go through all of this. Talk to your therapist, follow their advice, and take your time to mourn the relationship. Hopefully the findings of the paternity test will give you some answers that allow you to either prepare for fatherhood (a blessing) or completely close the chapter on this relationship and move on (also a blessing).
But I’m going to say, from a female perspective, you need to take control of your life. The self pity and sad sap routine will only attract another woman who will not respect you. You should want a partner, not a caretaker.
If this is the place where you anonymously post your sad thoughts and feelings but you manage to keep your shite together in your real life, then cool. But if you’re letting the grief and sadness control you in all aspects of your life, you need to work through it in therapy so that you can move on and build a better future for yourself and your future family.
But I’m going to say, from a female perspective, you need to take control of your life. The self pity and sad sap routine will only attract another woman who will not respect you. You should want a partner, not a caretaker.
If this is the place where you anonymously post your sad thoughts and feelings but you manage to keep your shite together in your real life, then cool. But if you’re letting the grief and sadness control you in all aspects of your life, you need to work through it in therapy so that you can move on and build a better future for yourself and your future family.
Posted on 8/5/23 at 8:56 am to ILurkThereforeIAm
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therapy
You mean pay to talk to a liberal until you agree with them?
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